Goodness me, this week has been exhausting. Not just because of the weather. But I mean, it’s August, the sun literally had one job. I’m just relieved the toilet roll hoarders booked every tent, every room, every yurt, caravan or cabin going on the South coast this week, otherwise I’d be lying on the beach with an ice cream whilst it siled it down.
But those bothersome rascals Storm Ellen and Storm Francis are not in themselves enough to cause indignation when we’ve come to expect torrential rain in summer.
No, I am of course referring to the four non-stories that have caused Daily Mail readers to fire up their vitriol-oiled webbed fingers. I’ll give you the highlights: Land of Hope and Glory, Gay Trains, Slavery in the National Trust and Woke Sky Sports.
The response to the stories has put into painful focus just how far we still have to go to reach equality. Back in May, I really felt like there was a palpable change as people stopped, and listened, to the stories of systemic racism, of oppression, and acknowledged we must do better. But I guess it was all performative. Chat. Empty promises. It was a child acquiescing to a parent’s demands so that they could get a bag of sweets. It was me nodding and smiling in a disagreement when I think I’m right even when faced with contrary evidence. It was a wife agreeing to *things* to shut her other half up.
Just a cursory glance at any of the comments beneath each story tells a story of partisan England and the rebellion against rebellion. Those who challenge the status quo are reduced to ‘woke lefties’ who hate the country they live in and seek to erase its heritage.
But it’s so easy to homogenise people. And though it sometimes feels – particularly on social media – polarising, as if we’re reduced to black and white; us and them, in my experience, there are more good people out there. They’re willing to take a stand, give up a seat, amplify a voice or cause, support a fight, step up and out.
And it’s these people we should be giving oxygen. So well done to the National Trust for acknowledging the part slavery plays in the sprawling stately homes. Well done Sky Sports for giving fresh voices a chance. And well-done Avanti West Coast for your rainbow train staffed by an LGBTQ+ crew.
I think we are united by our differences. And whilst we continue to give energy to ‘debating’ these changes, we overlook the people who are truly failing us.
But more importantly, we overlook those who are being failed.